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High Conflict Between Parents Can Have a Long-Term Impact on the Children’s Immune System

Sick little girl covered in blanket is hugging teddy bear and looking sadly on medicine while lying on couchParents often worry about the impact of a divorce on their children, but recent research suggests that divorce is not the problem.  How parents handle the divorce, however, can impact not just the children’s emotional health, but also the children’s physical health and immune systems well into adulthood.  In a study published on June 5, 2017, in the Proceedings of the National Academy of Sciences, researchers concluded that participants who reported that their parents had a high conflict separation were three times more likely to develop a cold when exposed to the cold virus.

The researchers studied 201 healthy adult men and women who were quarantined for six days in a hotel, exposed to the cold virus, and monitored to determine whether the participant developed cold symptoms.  The participants were divided into three groups: (1) those whose parents stayed together; (2) those whose parents were separated but remained on speaking terms; and (3) those whose parents were separated and were not on speaking terms throughout their childhood.

The results of the study showed that participants whose parents were separated but remained on speaking terms were not at an increased risk of developing cold symptoms when compared to the participants whose parents stayed together.  The participants whose parents were separated and were not on speaking terms, however, ran a three times higher risk of developing cold symptoms when exposed to the cold virus.  The researchers reported that this was consistent with studies finding higher levels of inflammation due to the impacts of stress on the immune system and the autonomic nervous system.

At a time when we are all more focused on keeping our families healthy, the results of this study are more important than ever, especially for parents who are already separated or still living together but considering a separation.  How parents handle their separation has a more lasting impact than most would think.  The separation process offers numerous opportunities to choose whether to put your children first or your hurt and anger first.  These opportunities range from small moments, such as choosing a respectful tone when you talk to your child about the other parent, or larger moments, such as deciding whether to retain an attorney who is a problem solver and child-centered or an attorney who focuses on fueling the conflict.  I have never had a client who does not want the best for their children.  The problem can be, however, making the choices that serve the children’s best interest, especially when those choices run counter to the parent’s emotions.  An experienced family lawyer who focuses on creative solutions and the best interest of the children can help a parent make those choices.  Making the right choices will benefit your children’s emotional and physical health well into adulthood.

If you have questions about this or any other Family Law issue please contact Catherine H. “Kate” McQueen at (240) 507-1718 or  kmcqueen@offitkurman.com.

 

ABOUT KATE MCQUEEN

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Catherine H. “Kate” McQueen is a family lawyer and principal in Offit Kurman’s Bethesda office and is licensed to practice in Maryland, Virginia, and the District of Columbia. Ms. McQueen focuses her practice on the many legal issues that impact families, including all the issues arising out of a divorce, such as custody, child support, alimony, and other financial and property issues. She also has extensive experience in guardianship matters for children and incapacitated adults, including assisting clients in petitioning for guardianship, serving as court-appointed counsel for alleged disabled persons, and serving as court-appointed guardian for individuals when their family members or friends are unwilling or unable to do so.

 

 

 

 

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